So I am going to do this Big Bang boyfriend questionnaire that a friend sent me. Besides the fact that this is going to be finding the "one" meant for me, I figured it would also give some good insight to my personality and thoughts on relationships if I write out what I think about each of the options. I also just thought it would be fun; that and I'm bored at the UC waiting for my shift to start. So here goes! There are two parts, but I've combined them here to make it easier! I've also color coded things. The option that I choose will be in light blue. The thoughts about each option will also be color coded to the corresponding member as follows: TOP, G-Dragon, Taeyang, Daesung, and Seungri.
Part 1:
Which Big Bang boyfriend would you want in these situations?
1. When I fall and hurt myself…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who gives me a piggy back ride to the hospital -> This is sweet, but depending on the injury I would become a little annoyed if it’s doing too much.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who makes fun of me because I fell -> When I do something stupid like this (what I call my blonde moments) I usually laugh it off. If walking with anyone and they aren’t able to laugh with me I would feel really awkward. Plus, I’m used to people laughing when I do something stupid. It’s just who I am. So long story short, they need to laugh when I fall, although it would be nice to make sure it’s not a serious injury first!
c. Dong Young- Bae, who runs to go buys medication -> If he just takes off I’d get a little annoyed and just leave. Whether it was something minor or something big, you don’t just go running off. Although I will give it to him that the intentions are good.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who helps me get home -> This is nice and sweet, but not too overly protective. Although, I must say that if we are together I would hope he would be taking me home in the end anyway.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who asks if it hurts a lot and blows on the place where it hurts -> Now I can picture Seungri doing this and I bet his face would be really cute, but I would get a little annoyed. I’d probably say or think something along the lines of: “Duh! It hurts a lot” and “how is blowing going to help the situation?”
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who makes fun of me because I fell -> When I do something stupid like this (what I call my blonde moments) I usually laugh it off. If walking with anyone and they aren’t able to laugh with me I would feel really awkward. Plus, I’m used to people laughing when I do something stupid. It’s just who I am. So long story short, they need to laugh when I fall, although it would be nice to make sure it’s not a serious injury first!
c. Dong Young- Bae, who runs to go buys medication -> If he just takes off I’d get a little annoyed and just leave. Whether it was something minor or something big, you don’t just go running off. Although I will give it to him that the intentions are good.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who helps me get home -> This is nice and sweet, but not too overly protective. Although, I must say that if we are together I would hope he would be taking me home in the end anyway.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who asks if it hurts a lot and blows on the place where it hurts -> Now I can picture Seungri doing this and I bet his face would be really cute, but I would get a little annoyed. I’d probably say or think something along the lines of: “Duh! It hurts a lot” and “how is blowing going to help the situation?”
2. When I say I want a name brand item…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who buys a fake one and says later on, he’ll make it a real one -> The thought is nice, but if he’s going to buy one eventually, why waste money on getting a fake one? b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who pretends not to listen but buys it for me later -> So this question was a little tougher for me because I don’t really want any brand name items. Yes they are nice, but I could find something just as nice in a cheaper brand. But besides the point, when I would ask for anything it would be nice to have it be a surprise later on. A kind of “I thought you weren’t paying attention, but you really were!” kind of thing.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who promises to buy me one once he makes more money -> This would work, but I wouldn’t bank on it too much.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who keeps saying not to buy expensive things -> If it was something that I really wanted (and not necessarily a brand name item) I would get a little peeved. “Thanks, but I’ll keep buying the things that I want.” Don’t tell me what to do.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who keeps asking if he can buy me something else -> I can see this working, but if it was the number one thing, I might not want to settle on something else. I don’t know; it’s kind of hard to judge since I don’t really want a brand name item.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who promises to buy me one once he makes more money -> This would work, but I wouldn’t bank on it too much.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who keeps saying not to buy expensive things -> If it was something that I really wanted (and not necessarily a brand name item) I would get a little peeved. “Thanks, but I’ll keep buying the things that I want.” Don’t tell me what to do.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who keeps asking if he can buy me something else -> I can see this working, but if it was the number one thing, I might not want to settle on something else. I don’t know; it’s kind of hard to judge since I don’t really want a brand name item.
3. While watching a horror movie
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who protects me -> Not quite sure what to think of this. I guess it would depend on what he means by “protecting me.” If I go off my best guess, I don’t really see how it would help.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who quietly covers my eyes -> This would be something that I wouldn’t mind. Plus, my eyes were probably already closed so I wouldn’t really notice specifically what’s going on. The only thing that would really change is the light filtering through my eyelids would suddenly fade away.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who comforts me by saying there’s nothing to be scared of -> “Thanks, but we are watching a scary movie and I know that. That doesn’t help the fact that I’m freaking out right now dude.”
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who holds my hand tightly -> This is another thing that I would take. I’d probably still close my eyes, but I would definitely be squeezing the heck out of his hand. I hope his hand muscles are pretty strong and can withstand some pressure.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who screams even before I scream -> I can see this going one of two ways. First, when he screams I get frightened even more and scream right along with him. Second, I get stunned by his screaming and either start laughing or just stare at him confused for a few minutes. The second would keep me from being scared, but I’m thinking the first one would have a higher chance of occurring.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who quietly covers my eyes -> This would be something that I wouldn’t mind. Plus, my eyes were probably already closed so I wouldn’t really notice specifically what’s going on. The only thing that would really change is the light filtering through my eyelids would suddenly fade away.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who comforts me by saying there’s nothing to be scared of -> “Thanks, but we are watching a scary movie and I know that. That doesn’t help the fact that I’m freaking out right now dude.”
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who holds my hand tightly -> This is another thing that I would take. I’d probably still close my eyes, but I would definitely be squeezing the heck out of his hand. I hope his hand muscles are pretty strong and can withstand some pressure.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who screams even before I scream -> I can see this going one of two ways. First, when he screams I get frightened even more and scream right along with him. Second, I get stunned by his screaming and either start laughing or just stare at him confused for a few minutes. The second would keep me from being scared, but I’m thinking the first one would have a higher chance of occurring.
*Side Note: I don’t really watch scary movies. I have this weird thing where I daydream after I see a movie and imagince myself in that setting and/or situation. I did that once with a scary movie and totally scared myself more than was necessary. Thankfully when I watch scary movies now (they are few and far between) I use a lot of distractions to keep me from going into that habit.
4. When my voice crack while singing…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who pinches my cheek and says i’m cute -> And when he turns his back I’ll roll my eyes and think “yeah, right.” I don’t know; guess I’m not a big fan of the “you’re cute” and whole pinching cheek thing.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who laughs at me -> Once again, probably the best thing in this situation. I’d most likely be frustrated, but I tend to get over things easily and would need to laugh it off and get over it. If someone else is laughing I would definitely “start up” as well.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who gets even more embarrassed than me -> This would be very weird for me. I’d get angry, “Why are you getting embarrassed?? You aren’t the one that screwed up!”
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who pretends he didn’t hear it -> Good job, but I would feel a little awkward because I would know he heard it and if he just ignores it then I’d feel I’d need to bring it up to break that tension. Good efforts, but eventually we’d need to laugh or talk about it or something.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who makes fun of me by imitating me -> I’d probably laugh with him after a little bit, but at first I’d probably be frustrated. There is a difference between laughing at and making fun through imitating. Imitating would remind me of what just happened and cause me to become even more frustrated with myself for screwing up.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who laughs at me -> Once again, probably the best thing in this situation. I’d most likely be frustrated, but I tend to get over things easily and would need to laugh it off and get over it. If someone else is laughing I would definitely “start up” as well.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who gets even more embarrassed than me -> This would be very weird for me. I’d get angry, “Why are you getting embarrassed?? You aren’t the one that screwed up!”
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who pretends he didn’t hear it -> Good job, but I would feel a little awkward because I would know he heard it and if he just ignores it then I’d feel I’d need to bring it up to break that tension. Good efforts, but eventually we’d need to laugh or talk about it or something.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who makes fun of me by imitating me -> I’d probably laugh with him after a little bit, but at first I’d probably be frustrated. There is a difference between laughing at and making fun through imitating. Imitating would remind me of what just happened and cause me to become even more frustrated with myself for screwing up.
5. When his friend says he likes me…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who says “What are you trying to do?” and breaks ties with his friend -> Not cool at all. I understand how it can be frustrating, but I wholely believe in the sayings “Bros before Hos” and “Chicks before Dicks.” I wouldn’t want someone to lose their friend because of me.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who goes up and punches his friend -> This is okay, but only because I’ve heard somewhere that when guys get in fights or get physical with each other it brings them closer together and that they over it quickly. It also gets the point across without directly cutting of ties.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who talks it out with his friend -> I would think this would be the best. I just hope that whatever “talk” they have sorts everything out and that this situation won’t pop up later on.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who says he will introduce another girl to his friend -> This one would work as well, but the problem is that unless they address the problem directly, it could not get solved.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who stops talking to his friend -> As mentioned above with option A, this would not fly with me at all.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who goes up and punches his friend -> This is okay, but only because I’ve heard somewhere that when guys get in fights or get physical with each other it brings them closer together and that they over it quickly. It also gets the point across without directly cutting of ties.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who talks it out with his friend -> I would think this would be the best. I just hope that whatever “talk” they have sorts everything out and that this situation won’t pop up later on.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who says he will introduce another girl to his friend -> This one would work as well, but the problem is that unless they address the problem directly, it could not get solved.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who stops talking to his friend -> As mentioned above with option A, this would not fly with me at all.
6. When I’m mad at my boyfriend…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who starts a serious talk by asking me if I’m mad -> Yes! We definitely should talk out what the issue is. It is my belief (as well as most other peoples’) that communication is key in a successful relationship.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who says I’m sorry and says don’t be mad -> The action and intent is nice, but shouldn’t he realize what he’s apologizing for.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who sings to me -> “Thanks. That was nice, but I’m still mad at you.”
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who makes me laugh -> “Hahahahaha, that was funny, but I’m still angry.”
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who does cute stuff around me -> Similar to the last two, but I would get more annoyed with him acting cute than singing to me or making me laugh.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who says I’m sorry and says don’t be mad -> The action and intent is nice, but shouldn’t he realize what he’s apologizing for.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who sings to me -> “Thanks. That was nice, but I’m still mad at you.”
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who makes me laugh -> “Hahahahaha, that was funny, but I’m still angry.”
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who does cute stuff around me -> Similar to the last two, but I would get more annoyed with him acting cute than singing to me or making me laugh.
*Side Note: I’ve only been truly angry/mad in my life. It takes a lot for me to get there, and even if I’m on my way I get over things easily. If I get frustrated with someone, leave me alone for a little while and I’ll come back over it and saying the whole “it’s water under the bridge” thing.
7. When my boyfriend meets my friends…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who compliments me in front of my friends -> Thanks, but I might feel it’s a little forced. I would also become a little embarrassed and think “Why in the world is he acting like this?”
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who asks my friends to watch over our relationship -> I like this. And I would really want my friends to like whomever I date and not think that they are some crazy psycho or something.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who makes me feel good by complimenting my friends -> That’s nice, but introducing him to my friends would be more of getting their approval and not his. “Sorry, but your opinion is second to my friends.”
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who makes my friends comfortable as if they were his friends -> Yes please just be chill when meeting my friends. I don’t need someone “putting on a show” to impress people. I want them to know the “real you” not what you think they think you should be.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who asks my friends to consider him -> Similar to option B, but a little more straight forward in getting their approval.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who asks my friends to watch over our relationship -> I like this. And I would really want my friends to like whomever I date and not think that they are some crazy psycho or something.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who makes me feel good by complimenting my friends -> That’s nice, but introducing him to my friends would be more of getting their approval and not his. “Sorry, but your opinion is second to my friends.”
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who makes my friends comfortable as if they were his friends -> Yes please just be chill when meeting my friends. I don’t need someone “putting on a show” to impress people. I want them to know the “real you” not what you think they think you should be.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who asks my friends to consider him -> Similar to option B, but a little more straight forward in getting their approval.
8. On my birthday…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who takes me some place expensive -> Nice, but the expensive part is not necessary. You can make a day special by not spending a lot more money.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who treats me better than other days -> Well, it’s nice as well, but I would hope it wouldn’t be too much nicer otherwise I might think something’s wrong or think “Why don’t you act like this usually?”
c. Dong Young-Bae, who makes me a special present -> Yes! emphasis on the “make.” I love homemade presents and things, especially because I believe that there are more emotions put into making than buying.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who sings to me on a stage at a restaurant -> Very sweet, but I would be a little embarrassed. I’d rather it be in a more private setting.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who says happy birthday all day long cheerfully -> Truthfully after a little while I would find it a little annoying. It would be nice at first, but seriously dude, I get it. Thanks, but take a chill pill.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who treats me better than other days -> Well, it’s nice as well, but I would hope it wouldn’t be too much nicer otherwise I might think something’s wrong or think “Why don’t you act like this usually?”
c. Dong Young-Bae, who makes me a special present -> Yes! emphasis on the “make.” I love homemade presents and things, especially because I believe that there are more emotions put into making than buying.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who sings to me on a stage at a restaurant -> Very sweet, but I would be a little embarrassed. I’d rather it be in a more private setting.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who says happy birthday all day long cheerfully -> Truthfully after a little while I would find it a little annoying. It would be nice at first, but seriously dude, I get it. Thanks, but take a chill pill.
9. When we kiss…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who hugs me tight first -> It’s nice, but sometimes the small time before the actual kiss would make the mood a little more awkward.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who just does it -> I think this is the best. The surprise is welcome and there is no really awkward moment where you both know it’s coming but can’t figure out who’s going to make the first move.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who asks first -> If you’re going to ask, NO! It’s a nice thought, but when it comes down to it I would be a little put off.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who becomes awkward first -> NOOOO! Can we refrain from the awkwardness please?
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who asks if I can give him a kiss on the cheek and turns his head when I’m about to kiss his cheeks -> Cute, but again with the asking, and it seems a little obvious.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who just does it -> I think this is the best. The surprise is welcome and there is no really awkward moment where you both know it’s coming but can’t figure out who’s going to make the first move.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who asks first -> If you’re going to ask, NO! It’s a nice thought, but when it comes down to it I would be a little put off.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who becomes awkward first -> NOOOO! Can we refrain from the awkwardness please?
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who asks if I can give him a kiss on the cheek and turns his head when I’m about to kiss his cheeks -> Cute, but again with the asking, and it seems a little obvious.
10. When it’s raining and we only have one umbrella…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who shares the umbrella but he ends up getting wet -> It’s romantic, but don’t get yourself sick. I’d rather you take the umbrella all for yourself.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who holds me really tight so both of us don’t get wet -> Similar to above, but at least I don’t have to worry less about him getting sick from the rain as much.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who give me the umbrella and he walks under the rain -> No thank you, I’d rather it be the opposite way.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who tells me to wait and go gets another umbrella -> This seems like too much effort. I’d just give him the umbrella and go without. Don’t waste your money.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who just tosses the umbrella and have both of us to walk in the rain -> This is more like it! Way to have fun and do it Singing in the Rain style!
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who holds me really tight so both of us don’t get wet -> Similar to above, but at least I don’t have to worry less about him getting sick from the rain as much.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who give me the umbrella and he walks under the rain -> No thank you, I’d rather it be the opposite way.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who tells me to wait and go gets another umbrella -> This seems like too much effort. I’d just give him the umbrella and go without. Don’t waste your money.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who just tosses the umbrella and have both of us to walk in the rain -> This is more like it! Way to have fun and do it Singing in the Rain style!
*Side Note: I love the rain!!
11. When I say I want to break up…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who lets me go, saying he’s sorry he didn’t do much for me -> It would be nice that he would respect my decision.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who is dumbfounded and says he never thought I’d break it off -> “What were you thinking then?”
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who is dumbfounded and says he never thought I’d break it off -> “What were you thinking then?”
c. Dong Young-Bae, who asks if he can hug me one last time -> “I guess so.”
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who says farewell and lets me go, crying -> I would definitely start to cry as well. And also be tempted to not break up with him.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who clings and anxiously asks why I’m acting like this suddenly -> “Have you been completely oblivious?” I would pause to explain things and get him to stop clinging.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who says farewell and lets me go, crying -> I would definitely start to cry as well. And also be tempted to not break up with him.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who clings and anxiously asks why I’m acting like this suddenly -> “Have you been completely oblivious?” I would pause to explain things and get him to stop clinging.
12. When we go to the amusement park…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who suggests to ride what I want to ride -> Nice, but what do you want to do/ride?
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who suggests to go to the haunted house first -> Okay…I guess so. At least you’re letting me know what you want to do and it’s a suggestion, so no forcefulness.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who takes lots of pictures -> Yay for pictures, as long as he doesn’t go overboard.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who eats this and that -> You don’t to an amusement park to eat. Plus you don’t want a full stomach to go on some of the rides.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who forcefully takes me to scary rides -> I guess this would be bad because he would be forcing me, but I don’t really find many of the rides scary at amusement parks I’ve been to before.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who suggests to go to the haunted house first -> Okay…I guess so. At least you’re letting me know what you want to do and it’s a suggestion, so no forcefulness.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who takes lots of pictures -> Yay for pictures, as long as he doesn’t go overboard.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who eats this and that -> You don’t to an amusement park to eat. Plus you don’t want a full stomach to go on some of the rides.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who forcefully takes me to scary rides -> I guess this would be bad because he would be forcing me, but I don’t really find many of the rides scary at amusement parks I’ve been to before.
13. When he is paying at a restaurant but has no money
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who is sorry but asks if I could pay for now -> Sure, I have no problem with paying. I wouldn’t mind paying once in a while. That would be a huge change for me if I wasn’t paying for myself and others sometimes.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who grabs my hand and runs -> Fun, but I would feel bad and want to go back to pay them later. No use becoming a criminal over something like this. Pride is important, but just let me pay.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who has them keep his belonging until he can pay -> This is a little overboard; just let me pay already.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who calls his friend to bring some money -> I guess this would work, but I would still want to pay.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who is anxious and doesn’t know what to do -> It would unsettle me and I would get up to take care of it myself. It’s nothing to lose sleep over dude.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who grabs my hand and runs -> Fun, but I would feel bad and want to go back to pay them later. No use becoming a criminal over something like this. Pride is important, but just let me pay.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who has them keep his belonging until he can pay -> This is a little overboard; just let me pay already.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who calls his friend to bring some money -> I guess this would work, but I would still want to pay.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who is anxious and doesn’t know what to do -> It would unsettle me and I would get up to take care of it myself. It’s nothing to lose sleep over dude.
14. When I talk to another guy…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who thinks it’s no big deal -> Yay! Most of my friends are guys and I would want him to trust me.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who tells me not to talk to other guys -> “Do you not trust me?”
c. Dong Young-Bae, who can’t say anything but actually bothers him -> You need to talk about things and not keep them hidden. That’s a really bad idea.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who is curious and sneakily wedges in the conversation -> I’d be a little confused or taken a back, but it’s better than telling me to stop talking to them completely.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who later asks what we talked about -> This is okay, but seriously guys, don’t you trust me?? If it’s something important I’d mention it to you. Can’t I just bum around with my friends without you knowing everything that we do?
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who tells me not to talk to other guys -> “Do you not trust me?”
c. Dong Young-Bae, who can’t say anything but actually bothers him -> You need to talk about things and not keep them hidden. That’s a really bad idea.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who is curious and sneakily wedges in the conversation -> I’d be a little confused or taken a back, but it’s better than telling me to stop talking to them completely.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who later asks what we talked about -> This is okay, but seriously guys, don’t you trust me?? If it’s something important I’d mention it to you. Can’t I just bum around with my friends without you knowing everything that we do?
15. When he can’t reach me through the phone…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who says he’s worried -> That’s sweet, but just because I didn’t answer doesn’t mean anything’s wrong.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who comes to my house right away -> That’d be a little overboard, but him showing up would also be a little cute. A I’m a little angry at you right now, but since you’re here I can let it go.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who lets it by, thinking something must have happened -> At least you let it drop, but that doesn’t mean anything “happened.”
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who calls until I pick up -> Even though I do this to my Mom when I try to get a hold of her, I would probably find this annoying. If I’m not answering the phone, I’m probably in a situation where I can’t answer it. (I know it’s hypocritical, but that’s just how my mind works.)
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who gets mad because I didn’t pick up -> Whoa dude, calm down. This would be a no go.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who comes to my house right away -> That’d be a little overboard, but him showing up would also be a little cute. A I’m a little angry at you right now, but since you’re here I can let it go.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who lets it by, thinking something must have happened -> At least you let it drop, but that doesn’t mean anything “happened.”
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who calls until I pick up -> Even though I do this to my Mom when I try to get a hold of her, I would probably find this annoying. If I’m not answering the phone, I’m probably in a situation where I can’t answer it. (I know it’s hypocritical, but that’s just how my mind works.)
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who gets mad because I didn’t pick up -> Whoa dude, calm down. This would be a no go.
16. When I tell him I love him…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who whispers in my ear that he loves me -> That’s sweet and intimate. I see nothing wrong here.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who kisses me -> Nice and romantic, but are you going to respond? Sometimes things do need to be said.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who hugs me without saying a word -> Same as above, but not quite as romantic. Once again, some things need to be said.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who smiles, embarrassed -> Aw cute, but that’s all?
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who hugs me tightly, saying he loves me too -> Yay! Another response and one that uses words as well!
c. Dong Young-Bae, who hugs me without saying a word -> Same as above, but not quite as romantic. Once again, some things need to be said.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who smiles, embarrassed -> Aw cute, but that’s all?
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who hugs me tightly, saying he loves me too -> Yay! Another response and one that uses words as well!
17. When we’re shopping…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who says it’s boring and wants to go home already -> “Then why did you come with me to begin with?”
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who picks out clothes for me -> Yay for this! I’m not really a fashionable person and prefer to wear what’s comfortable. I can dress up nicely (at least I think so), but I don’t know if it’s really fashionable.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who does everything I want to do -> “What about what you want to do?” Let’s change things up a little bit.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who impatiently follows me around -> Nice, but if you’re getting impatient, just go home. We can hang out later.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who enjoys shopping more than I do -> Okay, let’s have some fun!! Just don’t get too excited and forget that it’s more than just you shopping!
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who picks out clothes for me -> Yay for this! I’m not really a fashionable person and prefer to wear what’s comfortable. I can dress up nicely (at least I think so), but I don’t know if it’s really fashionable.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who does everything I want to do -> “What about what you want to do?” Let’s change things up a little bit.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who impatiently follows me around -> Nice, but if you’re getting impatient, just go home. We can hang out later.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who enjoys shopping more than I do -> Okay, let’s have some fun!! Just don’t get too excited and forget that it’s more than just you shopping!
18. When I act cutely (like a kid)…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who thinks I’m cute and hugs me -> The thinking I’m cute part is good, but the hug seems a little out of place for me.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who says I’m not doing it right and shows an example -> I’d be a little put off, but if he can do it better than me, what can I do?
c. Dong Young-Bae, who tells me to do that every day -> Okay…that’s a little odd.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who just laughs -> “Hahahaha…Why are you laughing?”
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who copies me -> Cute at first, but then it’d get a little old. I think it’d also remind me of my younger brother and sister.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who says I’m not doing it right and shows an example -> I’d be a little put off, but if he can do it better than me, what can I do?
c. Dong Young-Bae, who tells me to do that every day -> Okay…that’s a little odd.
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who just laughs -> “Hahahaha…Why are you laughing?”
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who copies me -> Cute at first, but then it’d get a little old. I think it’d also remind me of my younger brother and sister.
19. When we get held up by a gang…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who fights them -> That’s very manly, but totally not necessary if we have a chance to get away.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who grabs my hand and runs -> Yeah let’s get out of here. I don’t want to be associated with what’s going on in that alley.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who makes an effort to clear things out -> “Why are you trying to talk with a gang that’s holding us up? Let’s get out of here.”
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who calls the cops -> Okay, nice and safe, but that still implies hanging around the area.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who leaves me and runs away -> WTH are you thinking?? What a freakin’ woman. Thanks, but I’d rather not wear the pants in this relationship.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong, who grabs my hand and runs -> Yeah let’s get out of here. I don’t want to be associated with what’s going on in that alley.
c. Dong Young-Bae, who makes an effort to clear things out -> “Why are you trying to talk with a gang that’s holding us up? Let’s get out of here.”
d. Kang Dae-Sung, who calls the cops -> Okay, nice and safe, but that still implies hanging around the area.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun, who leaves me and runs away -> WTH are you thinking?? What a freakin’ woman. Thanks, but I’d rather not wear the pants in this relationship.
Results of Part 1:
TOP: 8
G-Dragon: 12
Taeyang: 4
Daesung: 3
Seungri: 2
Part 2
Part 2
Which Big Bang boyfriend would you want in these situations?
1. When I buy him clothes as a present and he doesn't like it…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun, who smiles and lies trying to compliment it saying it’s pretty -> I guess it’s okay as long as I don’t ever realize that he’s lying, but even then, lying = NO!
b. Kwon Ji-Yong: takes my hand and goes to the shopping mall explaining why he must exchange it for his fashion purposes -> At least he’s upfront that it’s something he would never wear and tries to explain it to me. Maybe next time I’ll understand his fashion more and get something that won’t be returned! Or that could just be wishful thinking! XD
c. Dong Young-Bae: smiles and tries to start a different conversation -> Sorry to say, but this would start the classic scene where the woman is all “You don’t like it?” and gets hurt by him trying to avoid the conversation.
d. Kang Dae-Sung: gets overly excited and exaggerates his thanks -> I see this as a form of lying, but he’s trying to hard and I think that he believes I’m stupid enough to fall for his lies.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun: wears it on the spot and jumps up and down the sidewalk -> Yay for trying, but that’s going a little too far. Even if he did like, I’d think he just lost some of his marbles.
2. When I am jealous due to his relationship with one of the female celebrities on TV…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun: holds my hand -> A good start, but that won’t solve all the jealousy issues.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong: explains logically and says its not true… then goes on TV and explains to the world its not true as well -> Well that would work. A little much to share it with the world, but the jealousy issues have been solved.
c. Dong Young-Bae: stutters trying to explain continuously, then sighs saying he’s sorry -> The stuttering's a little nerve wracking, and the sorry doesn’t clarify anything or solve any issues.
d. Kang Dae-Sung: laughs and seeings ‘Look at Me GwiSoon’ with my name in it instead -> You think singing and laughing is going to solve this? That would definitely bring up some doubt in the relationship.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun: Acts cute and says “Are you being jealous right now~!?’ in a cute voice -> Yeah, go ahead an make fun. We’ll see how I react then little maknae!
3. When I’m away from my phone and another guy sends me a text hitting on me…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun: deletes the guys number -> A little intrusive, but I can see the reasoning. That doesn’t really solve the issue though because the other person would still have my number and most likely try to contact at another time.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong: presses ‘Call’ on the number right away -> A little overprotective, but I kind of like it. A sort of “Who are you are why are you hitting on my girl” type of feel.
c. Dong Young-Bae: pretends he didn't see it but gets quiet -> No getting quiet. Have some reaction please.
d. Kang Dae-Sung: tells me i got a text and gives me suspicious looks -> It works and gets me to check the text, although it would definitely make me put up my defenses when I see the text and figure out what’s going on.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun: smiles and lets it go in front of me, then goes home and tracks the guy down texting him evil messages -> Ummm…don’t let it go. You need to a man and assert yourself. And not secretly behind my back. Can you imagine the texts a girl would get then?
4. When he comes to my house without a word but I look like a ‘pain’ (no shower, haven't washed hair, sweats, etc etc)…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun: Washes my hair for me -> That’s a little weird, but a nice action.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong: Makes me a schedule on ‘how to not be a pain’ and makes me write a written oath that i will never be a ‘pain’ again -> I laughed when I read this. This would aggravate me and as soon as he left I would ignore it unless I knew he had a break in his schedule and could possibly come over. Then again, that’s too much work.
c. Dong Young-Bae: lies to me and tells me he hasn't washed his hair for 4 days either -> Seriously, people can tell when you haven’t washed your hair. It gets all oily and gross. No lying.
d. Kang Dae-Sung: sits down on my couch like nothings wrong and watches Dorraemon -> Good! Just chill with me.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun: Gets too shocked and scared that he cant even come in the house -> If you can’t stand me being a ‘pain,’ I’m afraid we won’t work out. Sorry.
*Side Note: I am totally the person that when relaxing at home wears sweats, pj pants and comfy clothes and don’t care about my hair or anything. I’m home, why do I really need to focus on my appearance when nobody else is there? Seriously, I’m the same person. Jeez, whatever happened to inner beauty and the like. If we go outside I’ll change my clothes.
5. When I get a sickness and must die the next day…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun: treats me like the normal days but never lets go of my hand -> Perfect! I would want to do something amazing on my last day, but also want to cherish the normal days I spent. Those are the days when a person is truly the happiest.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong: swallows/hides his tears and says “Lets live today to the fullest/Until the day ends lets live like no tomorrow” -> Yes let’s do something crazy, but also do something normal and everyday.
c. Dong Young-Bae: ends up crying and doesn't know what to do -> Seriously? Get over yourself. You can cry when I’m gone. I don’t want to not spend my last day without you because you’re too busy being a cry baby.
d. Kang Dae-Sung: pretends he didn't hear and keeps making me laugh -> This is good too! Just act like everything is normal. If you take in too much of the last day feeling it could get hectic and not be as peaceful as usual.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun: cant stop crying and just keeps taking pictures with me -> Cute, but once again, don’t go overboard with the pictures and try to stop crying. I know it’s sad, but that will definitely bring the mood down and keep that it’s the last day in the forefront of our minds.
6. When he walks in on me cheating on him with someone else…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun: without a word, punches the guy and takes me with him -> Umm…depending on how he would treat me when we get where we’re going. Going off just this piece, I’d be freaking out and nervous as heck.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong: gives me his ring (couple ring), cellphone and walks out without a word -> I would have to agree with this because this is the exact same philosophy I have about cheating.
c. Dong Young-Bae: makes a conversation with all of us -> Awkward. I don’t want to sit there and talk with my bf and guy cheated on him with.
d. Kang Dae-Sung: says “Oops, got in the wrong place” and walks out -> Are you going to get angry or show any emotion?? Denial won’t erase what has happened here.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun: gets very mad and cant control his anger so he throws and breaks furniture -> Getting angry is a given, but you CAN’T lose control. Things could get really dangerous and take a definite turn for the worse.
7. When meeting my parents and they don't like him…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun: goes on his knees -> Begging…it’s nice, and shows that you can throw away your pride for the woman you love.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong: says “(name) is pregnant” -> I would slap/hit him where I could reach. Why in the world would you say that?
c. Dong Young-Bae: smiles and says he wants to marry his first love -> Good going for the love angle, but it’ll take more than that to get my parents to like you.
d. Kang Dae-Sung: tries to earn points by singing ‘Look at me Gwisoon’ -> Again with the singing of this song. Yes you can sing, but does that prove to my parents that you can take care of me?
e. Lee Seung-Hyun: kisses me in front of my parents and shouts “(name) IS MY LADY!” -> Shouting at parents = the best plan ever…NOT. That and kissing me in front of my parents, that’s a good way to get threatened and/or kicked out of the house.
8. When he sees that I’m in the audience while he's performing…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun: never takes his eyes off me until his performance ends -> That’s nice, but what about your fans? They are important and got you to where you are today.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong: ignores me because i make him nervous and focuses on making the performance perfect for me -> Aw…that’s cute I make you nervous. You do your thing on stage and I’ll do my thing in the stands. There’s no need to find me in the crowd.
c. Dong Young-Bae: is so happy that he keeps smiling and messes up his dance -> Focus there boy. You need to put the best performance forward for your fans.
d. Kang Dae-Sung: puts in customized moves by him for me -> That’s cute, but don’t put it too many. He totally needs to focus on performing for the entire audience and not just for me.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun: acts cute in front of the camera -> Well I would hope that he does this anyway in the concert. Acting cute doesn’t necessarily mean anything.
9. When I tell him I’m going to get plastic surgery…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun: pretends he didn't hear and secretly slides a picture of ’surgery-gone-wrong’ pictures for me to see -> It’s nice that he likes me just as I am and doesn’t want me to change myself. I also find it a little cute; the pictures act.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong: gives me his credit card -> Well, I’m sure how to take this. I’m split between the “WTH are you thinking? You’re supposed to tell me I don’t need it.” and “If you respect me enough to not question my decisions, okay then.” lines of thought. Although I must say, I leaning towards the first one more.
c. Dong Young-Bae: tells me I'm more beautiful now and says no -> Good boy. Just what a woman would want to hear.
d. Kang Dae-Sung: insists if i do it, hes definitely doing it too -> That’s a little weird, but a cute way to convince a person to not do it. Unless she’s an odd person and starts pointing out things he could get fixed, but that’s not me.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun: listens to me and then makes fun of me -> Yeah just make fun of me. Ridicule me and lower my self esteem even more (because it’s most likely pretty low to be wanting plastic surgery). Good job!
10. When I say I'm going to a resort for university…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun: tells me to have fun and come back -> Thanks! Totally conveys he trusts me and I don’t have to really worry about anything. I’m picturing a totally cheesy scene where I reply “I’ll miss you” and give loving gf eyes or something like that! XD
b. Kwon Ji-Yong: keeps asking me if guys are gonna be there too -> Of course there’s going to be guys there. There are both guys and girls in the University. Please just trust me there buddy.
c. Dong Young-Bae: says its okay but you see him starting to pout without realization -> Why are you pouting? Tell me what’s wrong. (Seriously Taeyang, TALK)
d. Kang Dae-Sung: suddenly gives me Doraemon and tells me to think of him when i look at this -> Aw that’s cute. He expects me to miss him and doesn’t question anything!
e. Lee Seung-Hyun: says “Take me too” -> Cute, but no.
11. When watching a movie together and it's some serious 19+ sexual content…
a. Choi Seung-Hyun: tries to switch the mood by being funny -> I’m expecting awkward laughs and eventually the tension to dissipate. Sounds like a good plan if he can execute it well.
b. Kwon Ji-Yong: ……asks jokingly “…can you do that?” -> “Hahahahahahaha…can you?”
c. Dong Young-Bae: cheeks turn red, starts pouring nose bleed and faints -> Whoa dude, take a chill pill. You don’t need to get all excited here. At least attempt to hide it.
d. Kang Dae-Sung: “oh fun stuff~” and enjoys it -> I would totally feel awkward.
e. Lee Seung-Hyun: suddenly whips his head around and looks at me -> Totally one of those focus on the screen moments to keep from making eye contact. I don’t even want to know what he’s thinking and am going to try to keep my face blank so he doesn’t think I’m thinking anything weird.
*Side Note: Totally was brought back to watching Caligula with my friends. We totally were making fun of it to get through some of the really awkward scenes. That or we just sat in silence, although surprisingly it was as awkward as one would think.
Results of Part 2:
TOP: 5
G-Dragon: 6
Taeyang: 1
Daesung: 2
Seungri: 0
Totals:
Daesung: 5
Thoughts on the Results:
So it appears that out of Big Bang, they person that I would be most likely to date would be G-Dragon. (No bias here!! XD) Okay, so I tried not to answer to just my bias, but I did come to a realization. He’s my bias for reason! Anyway, I find it a little funny that I went for the older ones in the group. As for the other three, Taeyang and Daesung could teach a couple things to G-Dragon and TOP, but only a couple things. As for Seungri, I found him kind of annoying (like a younger brother) and this just solidified it for me. No offense to you Seungri biases, but he just reminds me of the annoying younger brother. I’m not trying to hate on him or anything. He just doesn’t do it for my like G-Dragon (and apparently TOP).
Anyway, this was interesting. I wonder if any other entertainment people have filled out a questionnaire similar to this. All that I’ve found are things where people make quizzes out of what artists have stated as their ideal girl, but nothing like this where you take it to find out what would be the best match for you. If anybody knows or finds of any more like this let me know! I might take it as well! I have a couple other questionnaire forms (not like this) that I’ll do at some point. I think this’ll help me keep up with a more regular posting schedule!
Anyway, this was interesting. I wonder if any other entertainment people have filled out a questionnaire similar to this. All that I’ve found are things where people make quizzes out of what artists have stated as their ideal girl, but nothing like this where you take it to find out what would be the best match for you. If anybody knows or finds of any more like this let me know! I might take it as well! I have a couple other questionnaire forms (not like this) that I’ll do at some point. I think this’ll help me keep up with a more regular posting schedule!
Ja Ne~
Stasi
TRANSLATION CREDIT: 1tymforyomind and bigbangnyuh @SOOMPI
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